One Congregation, Many Voices: Arguments for the Sake of Heaven

Winter Topic: Building understanding and community across generations

Here are the materials for your salon group’s winter topic: Building Understanding and Community across Generations.  Your salon group’s facilitator will be scheduling your meeting to discuss these materials in January or February.  If you are not in a salon group and would like to join one, please email ManyVoices@bethemet.org

First, before your salon group meets, have a conversation with someone from a different generation or age cohort. Discuss and reflect on:

  • What is the best part of being your current age, and what are the best characteristics of people of your generation?
  • What is difficult or challenging for you and your generation right now?  What are the downsides?
  • What do you like most, and what is most challenging about being Jewish right now? How do your answers to these questions overlap or differ?
  • What are the main misconceptions or misunderstandings that people have about your generation?  What images of your generation would you like to correct or set straight?

Second, read the materials selected by your salon facilitator(s) in preparation for your salon group meeting. Materials will be drawn from the list below.

Third, we’ll come together for a congregation-wide event on Sunday, March 1, from 3:00 to 5:00 pm at Beth Emet to further understand this topic and hear from congregants across generations, followed by havdalah. Register here.

Materials for the next session

  • What We Know Better blog post by Ellen Blum-Barish
  • For reference – the generally accepted definition of generations
    • Baby Boomers: Born 1946 to 1964
    • Generation X: Born 1965 to 1980
    • Millennials: Born 1981 to 2000
    • Generation Z: Born 2001 to 2020
    • Gen Alpha: Born 2013 to 2025

Materials From the November 10 Session

Background on the Event

Click here to watch the launch event!

At our opening event, Judaic scholar Sefi Kraut, Director of Mahloket Matters at the Pardes Institute in Jerusalem, will facilitate a congregation-wide workshop tailored for our community on how to have productive and thoughtful difficult conversations with those with whom we are in the community. Drawing on Jewish texts, learnings from social psychology, and practical application, we will explore the skills, mindset, and heartscape necessary to engage with each other on challenging topics for the sake of personal growth and deepened interpersonal connections.  The Pardes Institute of Jewish Studies is an open, inclusive, diverse, and intellectually challenging Jewish learning community based in Jerusalem with programs worldwide.

Last year’s book groups are morphing into salon-like groups that will meet several times in the winter and spring to use these skills to discuss difficult topics, supplemented by short readings, podcast episodes, film clips, and other multimedia. The first topic we’ll grapple with in our salon groups will be Intergenerational Differences. How can the different generations that make up a family – or a synagogue – learn from each other on topics over which they disagree? Stay tuned for more information.